as I start to think about the reception I’ve been saving some inspiration:
How to pin on a boutonniere at Wedding Bee
fabulous bunch of bouquet alternatives at Offbeat Bride
paper flower tutorial at Dozi via Elisebeth
also pom-poms and stick centerpieces at Offbeat Bride
I’ve been peeking at the collection of good things at Martha Stewart Weddings, and this image at The Bedlam of Beefy is lovely
PomLove pom-pom kits at Etsy, via Mighty Goods

Hi Megan, Congratulations to you and Scott! How very exciting
I’d like to suggest magnets in the boutonniere. Our florist wrapped a tiny magnet into the stem of the boutonnieres and then had little pockets of fabric sewn up for the other magnet. We pinned the fabric wrapped magnet on the underside of the lapel and the boutonniere just snapped right on through the lapel! It was wonderfully easy. Come to think of it, the reason why we did it that way was because I walked down the aisle with my bouquet and once I got up to the front of the church the boutonniere was nestled in my bouquet, I pulled it out, put it on him (the magnets made it a piece of cake) and had a little moment up there with him. It was very sweet. Best wishes to both of you